AITA for refusing to let my brother stay at my house while I'm away, even though he's "between homes" and offering to watch it?
My wife and I are self-employed and make a decent living online. After my MIL's car accident, we decided to move in with her in Florida to help out, leaving our house in Virginia. When my brother offered to stay at our place, I declined, considering his past actions.
I’m the brother whose home request got rejected. My belongings have a history of impacting shared spaces, and now my sister is wary of letting me stay alone at her house.
My brother asked me to watch his house while he's away due to family reasons. However, my past financial irresponsibility and messy cohabitation record have made him hesitant to trust me with this responsibility.
"I do not want anyone in my home while I am away."
Despite his insistence and offers to charge less, I understand his decision based on my actions during COVID and the aftermath of living with relatives.
"I believe I am justified in not allowing them to stay in my house even if they do have to sleep in their car."
While I may face difficulties due to my current situation, I acknowledge the impact of my past choices on my brother's trust and decision regarding his property.
🏠 The Aftermath
At the moment, my brother and I are at odds regarding his request to stay at my house while I am away. His past actions have influenced my decision, creating a rift between us.
The consequences include strained family relations, potential misunderstandings, and the need to establish boundaries based on our past interactions.
My brother's history of financial irresponsibility and disregard for shared living spaces have led to my reluctance in allowing him to stay at my property, despite his current situation.
"Sometimes past mistakes can impact present trust, affecting decisions for the future."
While it may seem harsh, my decision is rooted in acknowledging the realities of our past interactions and ensuring the security of my property.
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