AITA for refusing to be involved in my sister’s wedding preparations and not letting my dad suddenly insert himself into my relationship after years of rejection?
My sister's recent engagement celebration stirred up feelings of rejection and hurt within me due to my family's lack of support for my own engagement. Despite years of dismissal, my dad suddenly wants to be involved in my relationship after showing no interest previously.
I'm the son who felt abandoned by his family during a crucial moment—my engagement introduction. Now, as my sister plans her wedding, my dad suddenly wants to be involved, leaving me feeling conflicted and hurt.
Despite my excitement to proceed with the tradition of an introduction, my dad's refusal to participate was a blow to my pride and respect. Now, his change of heart feels insincere and disrespectful.
The rejection and lack of support from my family for my engagement has left a lasting impact on my relationship. Their sudden interest in my sister's wedding preparations feels like a slap in the face.
"At his house: one pair allowed, everything else “must stay with me.” At my house: both pairs and the contacts are safe, and I handle pickups."
The lack of support from my family during my engagement and their sudden interest in my sister's wedding preparations has left me feeling betrayed and skeptical of their intentions.
🏠 The Aftermath
My refusal to participate in my sister's wedding preparations and my dad's sudden interest in my relationship has caused tension within the family.
While my dad's change of heart may seem like progress, the underlying issues of support and trust in our family dynamics remain unresolved.
The consequences of my decision include further strain on my relationship with my family and a reiteration of the deep-seated lack of support I have felt.
"In a house where everything is scarce, even clear vision became a status symbol."
The emotional toll of feeling overlooked and undervalued is palpable, especially in the context of important family events.
💭 Emotional Reflection
The emotional fallout from feeling unsupported and rejected by my family during my engagement and now witnessing their sudden change of heart is complex and painful.
While the desire for family support is universal, the lack of consistency and genuine care from my family members has left me questioning their intentions and
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